Love

What exactly makes us fall in love? You can't just look at a person and say "Hey I pick you, we are in love now." It just doesn't work like that. You have to take the time to get to know somebody and get to understand what makes them tick. Everyone has those little imperfections that make them who they are. That is truly what you fall in love with. You can't fall in love with somebody who is perfect. That would be to boring. There would be nothing exciting about that. There would be nothing different or weird or strange about them. And in the end that's what you love. That is what gets you through the rough days in life. Everything could seem to be falling apart around you but that one person can do or say something so funny or make you so happy that everything else is gone. Nothing else matters anymore. And sometimes those people you love just need to be there for you so you have somebody to listen to you bicker and whine about every little thing in your life. Not to actually fight with you but just to bicker with. To those who don't understand it, it looks like fighting. But it is honestly makes things interesting no matter what. It makes my day to be able to joke around and boss around somebody and have both people know that it is all just a big joke. To me, that is love.

"So it's not gonna be easy. It's going to be really hard; we're gonna have to work at this everyday, but i want to do that because i want you. I want all of you, forever, everyday. You and me.....everday."
(The Notebook)